5 SIGNS HE IS NOT INTO YOU
1. Talks about his ex.
This is the one red flag sign to run for the hills. Men who talk about their exes in your company, especially repetitiously and in a positive nostalgic way are obviously not into you.
This relationship will consist of you wondering if he is still thinking about her, even at the most imitate times . It will cause you to avoid being places that could trigger memories for this man who has a neurotic fixation of the past. This man WILL probably be happy to get into a relationship with you but you will not be at the forefront of their mind. Once, let it slip… if it happens again, its time to get real and know that you are simply a transitional void.
2. He ignores your calls/ texts/ emails
This is yet another flaming red flag to avoid this guy and not make excuses for him. People who are interested want to BUILD a relationship. Lacklustre effort? Time to let them go. These are the types who you know are around and able to communicate with you but seriously.. if a guy is into you, they’ll give you the grace of replying. A guy should NEVER leave you wondering if he is into you you or not.
3. You are last on the “to do list”
If this guy has a myriad of better things to do and often menial things, then seriously. Pay attention. Do not allow yourself to be last on the daily chores list after him watching his favourite tv show. You deserve more than that. You should be one of the first people he speaks to in the morning and the last at night. No ifs or buts.
4. He distances you from his friends/family
This shows he is not open to have you in his life. He is either keeping that distance because he knows your existence with him is only temporary and doesn’t want to complicate things or because he feels they wont approve of you.
5. You are always wondering if he is into you or not.
You will know if a man is into you, Even the most awkward of men will make some level of contact and communicate with you. It is when you reach out to be greeted with nothingness that you should know that he simply is not into you and to not waste your time on someone who cant be bothered making the effort.